Is it bad that because I’m so self-sufficient and independent that I don’t like doing favors for other people? I don’t need to rely on other people, so I find it very annoying when others need to rely on me. And it’s mostly just for my car. I get a lot of “Will you drive me to _____ because ______?” 

No. I won’t.

I’m so much of a “figure it out yourself” kind of person; that’s just how I was raised. Maybe it means I’m callused. Maybe I need to be more helping. I just have no patience for it.